RIP Kolby Ray

FSU · 2013-06-15T11:02:34Z

Well, I tend to bottle shit in and then comes the anger built on emotions so figured I would vent a little here to get some shit out cause I def. don't do it around people I know, men don't cry! Right/!?!?!My wife and I lost our son, Kolby, last week. We just got out of the hospital the other day and she delivered a stillborn, 20 weeks in. We already got sonograms of him, found out he was a boy, picked out a name, bought him his first lil outfit and went in last Fri for a reg checkup and we thought blood work. Sadly, they couldn't find a heart beat and figured it was a cord issue. After delivery, he had no deformities, no obvious reasons for blood flow to stop pumping his heart. We decided to run a genetics test just in case to find out wtf happened. Wife and I are devistated and did not expect this. So many people around her in her family are having babies around the same time as we were(oct) and it's just killing us. I went and paid for a cremation service, picked out a nice heart urn with engraving on it and a nice sterling silver heart necklace with foot prints for my wife to wear that also holds a lil bit of his cremains. Spent a lot of money on my boy and figured he deserves it!! What makes this very difficult is we were suppose to have a girl around 2 years ago and her placenta broke and caused a miscarriage. She had a D & C then but this time she had to be induced and do a full delivery which was pretty fucking awful, hope no one on here has to go thru this fucking bullshit, real talk!Just on my mind a lot today because I'm waiting on the jewelry to arrive today via Express and then have to head back to the funeral home and drop it off and hopefully everything will be ready to bring him back to us.

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17/06/2013 10:41 am

I can’t even imagine.

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18/06/2013 9:27 am

Fuck. I feel for you and your family, bro.

Like Ngls said, I can’t even imagine.

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18/06/2013 11:27 am

Wow, dude I am really sorry to hear this. Peace for you and your loved ones at this time.

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