Bro you got to go to a temp agency or labor ready, you can make 60 to 90 a day you got to start somewhere. Get back feet an lay off the bottle an smoke till ya got a place. ONLY U CAN FIX THIS. YOU CAAN DO IT…

Please spare me the condescending advice about rehab. This is a board about blends, put down the stones as you look at me through your glass houses. I apologize for thinking any of you would understand or care, rather than judge. Mr Jones is the best among you, I’d rather die than have friends like most of the rest of you quite frankly. I’m glad you kept your money, the words you gave instead were as useful as gold to a man who is drowning. Again, I’ve asked for specific help, if you aren’t interested in doing so please go away. You don’t know me and a few who do cannot explain to me if you are purposely maliceful or this is supposed to be some absurd mockery of "tough love.’"

Please spare me the condescending advice about rehab. This is a board about blends, put down the stones as you look at me through your glass houses. I apologize for thinking any of you would understand or care, rather than judge. Mr Jones is the best among you, I’d rather die than have friends like most of the rest of you quite frankly. I’m glad you kept your money, the words you gave instead were as useful as gold to a man who is drowning. Again, I’ve asked for specific help, if you aren’t interested in doing so please go away. You don’t know me and a few who do cannot explain to me if you are purposely maliceful or this is supposed to be some absurd mockery of "tough love.’"

Go talk to the Army Recruiters ,,if you have a high school diploma and can walk and talk they will give you a career..

Also check with the food stamp office and Welfare office…and if your depression is bad enough go talk to the welfare office. There is also Shelters and food banks all over the USA..temp services and day work can pay the bills nicely..

A few of us have already tried to help several Forum members..killa and blacksheep..we got burned. A few of us badly..

None of us are rich. Most of us can barely cover our own addictions..

Good Luck, God speed and we are here if you need emotional support..

Who the hell lives with their mom after age 18?

Do you bring chicks back to your moms place?

Your mom has every right to smoke weed and do coke – it’s her house, she is obviously responsible enough to pay the bills, and as an adult she can use whatever substance she wants to.

Nothing wrong with cocaine if you can handle it.

Making drugs in a residential house is manufacturing a schedule 1 drug, your mom can loose her house because of your antics.

I am beginning to think that this entire thread is a scam to get ppl to donate to his drug n alcohol addictions.  If this aint a scam then take a photo of the order of protection and email to administration.

Before this thread gets worse this does happen alot on other forums. I like to hope this would not happen here but its happined on tgl sfu shit everywhere somehow.

Honestly i wasn’t going to reply to this thread but fuck it. Its one thing if a member here comes on to vent about the BS in their life and members decide to help them. Its a whole other ball of wax to make a thread asking for cash right from the start. It’s even worse to come back to said thread and admit that you went and drank up tha last of the cash you had and then ask for more handouts while at the same time telling anyone who isnt giving a donation or coddling your bitch ass to fuck off. I honestly think that this should be a ban-able offense. At least most of the shills that get banned offer a product for the money they ask for. It really pisses me off to see someone come on here and try to take advantage of the goodness of our online family. And to JYJY, dude grow up, suck it up, and deal with whatever you have to deal with on your own. Right now the only difference between you and a wino in the street begging for change is that you are doing it electronically. Also, i suspect that over use of CB’s contributed to your hypothermia in a building as a side effect of some rc’s is hypothermic conditions. I hope you get help and change your life dude, but for now i would like to extend a huge…..

I almost considered joining Jones and sending money.. then I remembered all the times I did not have $20 to send my own kids when they needed it. Sometimes I still don’t. I’ve been on my own since I graduated High School. Years later, my kids moved out, not because they were asked or forced but because they were ready to leave the nest in their late teens/early twenties. No drama, a couple of tears for the past but we all grew up and moved on. I get that we don’t know the whole situation but blendah please… a public forum to beg funds without full disclosure and this is the reaction you will get.

Personally, I had a fucked up childhood and especially High School Years. Even if this forum had been available decades ago I would have never asked for help and then bristled when I did not get what I wanted.. not defending your parents so much as questioning what you really hoped to achieve here. It’s easy to find a defender when you don’t allow them to decide for themselves or conveniently spin things in your direction.
Whether you like it or not, you are getting sage advice from other members, as the Stones said you can’t always get what you want but you might find sometimex you get what you need.

For once IQ I lower my dislike of all caps and say let ‘er rip……

To the OP —-

Obviously right about now your life sucks — okay.  So what are you going to do about it?  I am sure if you had asked for advice in brainstorming solutions, folks would have come out of the woodwork to give you creative advice.  Instead, you asked for a handout, not a hand up.  Then when people criticized you, you told them to fuck off.  Man, charity begins at home, with the man in the mirror.  I can promise you that you aren’t the first person on this forum who has experienced homelessness. 

Now, I may have not read each and every word you said (or cared to after a certain point), but based on my skimming of what you have been posting, I have a few thoughts.

First, the mere fact you had to ask for financial support here rather than people you do know in real life would make one suspicious about how well you get along with others, I’m just saying.  Second, I may know a few things about Ithaca.  I am really having a very hard time believing they would commit a blatant act of brutality to a totally cooperative suspect and that you would get hypothermia in September.  Third, I just happen to know a few things about the law, and the stuff you are saying about the "restraining order" doesn’t jibe with anything I have ever heard off.  Fourth, you claim you have talked to three lawyers—- I am sure a "progressive" attorney in your area would be well hooked into social services and aid agencies and can point you in the right direction.

Please feel free to tell me to fuck off, you are entitled to your opinion.  But right now you are at a bottom in your life.  Is this going to be a new beginning?  Or the beginning of the end?  If you don’t like the hand you have been dealt, grab the deck and deal yourself a new hand.  Are you gong to be a victim? or a victor?

No, idiots who think they know me, my life and my problems well enough to attack me personally and call me a crazy drug addict pussy when I ask for some minor financial assistance after years of emotional abuse from my own mother while I was severely depressed culminated in her essentially collaborating with the police to kill me after I decided I was no longer going to let her drive me to do it myself. She has commited felonies against me and perverted the family court system illegally to immediately evict me.

Any reason any of you have to doubt this is something you invented. These are facts easily provable in court even without the only person living with us thinking exactly the same about the situation. I have no idea why anyone here doubts any of this other than that you believe me to be intrinsically a liar? If not do explain how all this bullshit about me being a crazy self-destructive drug addict caused this, the illegal immediate eviction, the denial of basic medical care at the precinct, etc, etc. I deserved all of that and brought it on myself  because you are all experts in me and my life, my mother, the law, depression, etc? Oh, you know the negative side effects of novel cannabinoid agonists as well, on a level beyond my understanding of biochemustry and cognitive science, with no knowledge of exactly what or how much I use or how. You people are startlingly judgemental based on next to nothing in a horrific context.

EDIT: I stopped reading this thread well before the end, I was up to thanking Jones and being done with this obvious mistake a couple posts ago. I have too much to deal with to bother arguing with people who have nothing for me but hostility. Have fun debating my life and personality without me. The link is there for anyone that cares. As I said, Jones, you are cool and you’ll be rewarded for that. The ones giving me such lovely advice about how I’m a terrible person and this is my fault… I don’t know what you are thinking but maybe that isn’t the right word for what has been going on here.

Bitch please

Dr Phil does represent the level of the responses here, if any of you were vaguely trained and actually knew what was going on. Good post.

Locking thread.

Back to positive vibes.